Sanity-check database before running upgrades (#6982)

Some of the database deltas rely on `config.server_name` being set correctly,
so we should check that it is before running the deltas.

Fixes #6870.

synapse/storage/prepare_database.py

@@ -278,13 +278,17 @@ def _upgrade_existing_database(
             the current_version wasn't generated by applying those delta files.
         database_engine (DatabaseEngine)
         config (synapse.config.homeserver.HomeServerConfig|None):
-            application config, or None if we are connecting to an existing
-            database which we expect to be configured already
+            None if we are initialising a blank database, otherwise the application
+            config
         data_stores (list[str]): The names of the data stores to instantiate
             on the given database.
         is_empty (bool): Is this a blank database? I.e. do we need to run the
             upgrade portions of the delta scripts.
     """
+    if is_empty:
+        assert not applied_delta_files
+    else:
+        assert config
 
     if current_version > SCHEMA_VERSION:
         raise ValueError(
@@ -292,6 +296,13 @@ def _upgrade_existing_database(
             + "new for the server to understand"
         )
 
+    # some of the deltas assume that config.server_name is set correctly, so now
+    # is a good time to run the sanity check.
+    if not is_empty and "main" in data_stores:
+        from synapse.storage.data_stores.main import check_database_before_upgrade
+
+        check_database_before_upgrade(cur, database_engine, config)
+
     start_ver = current_version
     if not upgraded:
         start_ver += 1