Use slots in attrs classes where possible (#8296)

slots use less memory (and attribute access is faster) while slightly
limiting the flexibility of the class attributes. This focuses on objects
which are instantiated "often" and for short periods of time.

synapse/replication/tcp/streams/_base.py

@@ -383,7 +383,7 @@ class CachesStream(Stream):
     the cache on the workers
     """
 
-    @attr.s
+    @attr.s(slots=True)
     class CachesStreamRow:
         """Stream to inform workers they should invalidate their cache.
 
@@ -441,7 +441,7 @@ class DeviceListsStream(Stream):
     told about a device update.
     """
 
-    @attr.s
+    @attr.s(slots=True)
     class DeviceListsStreamRow:
         entity = attr.ib(type=str)