Add configs to make profile data more private (#9203)

Add off-by-default configuration settings to:
- disable putting an invitee's profile info in invite events
- disable profile lookup via federation

Signed-off-by: Andrew Ferrazzutti <fair@miscworks.net>

tests/handlers/test_profile.py

@@ -161,7 +161,11 @@ class ProfileTestCase(unittest.HomeserverTestCase):
 
         response = self.get_success(
             self.query_handlers["profile"](
-                {"user_id": "@caroline:test", "field": "displayname"}
+                {
+                    "user_id": "@caroline:test",
+                    "field": "displayname",
+                    "origin": "servername.tld",
+                }
             )
         )