Faster room joins: avoid blocking when pulling events with missing prevs (#13355)

Avoid blocking on full state in `_resolve_state_at_missing_prevs` and
return a new flag indicating whether the resolved state is partial.
Thread that flag around so that it makes it into the event context.

Co-authored-by: Richard van der Hoff <1389908+richvdh@users.noreply.github.com>

tests/test_state.py

@@ -462,6 +462,7 @@ class StateTestCase(unittest.TestCase):
                 state_ids_before_event={
                     (e.type, e.state_key): e.event_id for e in old_state
                 },
+                partial_state=False,
             )
         )
 
@@ -492,6 +493,7 @@ class StateTestCase(unittest.TestCase):
                 state_ids_before_event={
                     (e.type, e.state_key): e.event_id for e in old_state
                 },
+                partial_state=False,
             )
         )