Optimise calculating device_list changes in /sync. (#11974)

For users with large accounts it is inefficient to calculate the set of
users they share a room with (and takes a lot of space in the cache).
Instead we can look at users whose devices have changed since the last
sync and check if they share a room with the syncing user.

synapse/storage/databases/main/devices.py

@@ -670,6 +670,16 @@ class DeviceWorkerStore(SQLBaseStore):
             device["device_id"]: db_to_json(device["content"]) for device in devices
         }
 
+    def get_cached_device_list_changes(
+        self,
+        from_key: int,
+    ) -> Optional[Set[str]]:
+        """Get set of users whose devices have changed since `from_key`, or None
+        if that information is not in our cache.
+        """
+
+        return self._device_list_stream_cache.get_all_entities_changed(from_key)
+
     async def get_users_whose_devices_changed(
         self, from_key: int, user_ids: Iterable[str]
     ) -> Set[str]: