Factor out get_db_conn to HomeServer base class

This function is identical to all subclasses, so we may as well push it up to
the base class to reduce duplication (and make use of it in the tests)

synapse/server.py

@@ -307,6 +307,23 @@ class HomeServer(object):
             **self.db_config.get("args", {})
         )
 
+    def get_db_conn(self, run_new_connection=True):
+        """Makes a new connection to the database, skipping the db pool
+
+        Returns:
+            Connection: a connection object implementing the PEP-249 spec
+        """
+        # Any param beginning with cp_ is a parameter for adbapi, and should
+        # not be passed to the database engine.
+        db_params = {
+            k: v for k, v in self.db_config.get("args", {}).items()
+            if not k.startswith("cp_")
+        }
+        db_conn = self.database_engine.module.connect(**db_params)
+        if run_new_connection:
+            self.database_engine.on_new_connection(db_conn)
+        return db_conn
+
     def build_media_repository_resource(self):
         # build the media repo resource. This indirects through the HomeServer
         # to ensure that we only have a single instance of