Update get_pdu to return the original, pristine EventBase (#13320)

Update `get_pdu` to return the untouched, pristine `EventBase` as it was originally seen over federation (no metadata added). Previously, we returned the same `event` reference that we stored in the cache which downstream code modified in place and added metadata like setting it as an `outlier`  and essentially poisoned our cache. Now we always return a copy of the `event` so the original can stay pristine in our cache and re-used for the next cache call.

Split out from https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/pull/13205

As discussed at:

 - https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/pull/13205#discussion_r918365746
 - https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/pull/13205#discussion_r918366125

Related to https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/issues/12584. This PR doesn't fix that issue because it hits [`get_event` which exists from the local database before it tries to `get_pdu`](7864f33e28/synapse/federation/federation_client.py (L581-L594)).

synapse/storage/databases/main/events.py

@@ -1346,9 +1346,24 @@ class PersistEventsStore:
             event_id: outlier for event_id, outlier in txn
         }
 
+        logger.debug(
+            "_update_outliers_txn: events=%s have_persisted=%s",
+            [ev.event_id for ev, _ in events_and_contexts],
+            have_persisted,
+        )
+
         to_remove = set()
         for event, context in events_and_contexts:
-            if event.event_id not in have_persisted:
+            outlier_persisted = have_persisted.get(event.event_id)
+            logger.debug(
+                "_update_outliers_txn: event=%s outlier=%s outlier_persisted=%s",
+                event.event_id,
+                event.internal_metadata.is_outlier(),
+                outlier_persisted,
+            )
+
+            # Ignore events which we haven't persisted at all
+            if outlier_persisted is None:
                 continue
 
             to_remove.add(event)
@@ -1358,7 +1373,6 @@ class PersistEventsStore:
                 # was an outlier or not - what we have is at least as good.
                 continue
 
-            outlier_persisted = have_persisted[event.event_id]
             if not event.internal_metadata.is_outlier() and outlier_persisted:
                 # We received a copy of an event that we had already stored as
                 # an outlier in the database. We now have some state at that event
@@ -1369,7 +1383,10 @@ class PersistEventsStore:
                 # events down /sync. In general they will be historical events, so that
                 # doesn't matter too much, but that is not always the case.
 
-                logger.info("Updating state for ex-outlier event %s", event.event_id)
+                logger.info(
+                    "_update_outliers_txn: Updating state for ex-outlier event %s",
+                    event.event_id,
+                )
 
                 # insert into event_to_state_groups.
                 try: