Sending the transfer transaction in a distinct state helps ensuring
that we do not send the Monero lock transaction twice in a restart
scenario.
Waiting for the first transaction confirmation in a separate state
helps ensuring that we send the transfer proof in a restart scenario.
Once we resume unfinished swaps upon startup we have to ensure that
it is safe for Alice to act.
If Bob has locked BTC it is only make sense for Alice to lock up the
XMR as long as no timelock has expired. Hence we abort if the BTC is
locked, but any timelock expired already.
